My husband had a stroke recently and was not expected to survive. He made it through this entire disaster without any long term effects. I was telling a friend who visited us at the hospital this amazing news and she asked me “do you think you’ll appreciate him more?” What? I appreciated him before. I am a little annoyed by the women who find the fact that my husband does housework and took care of his kids, because he is their father, as doing extra. Why do they think that it comes from a lack of appreciation on my part. Perhaps it is the appreciation on his part that has him doing these things. I never really let being a father be an option. Dad’s don’t babysit they take care of their children. I work so I do my share and he does his. I go to school so he does have more household chores. Why do women feel the need to judge the women harshly if the man does what a man should do?
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